Re: Kdyz "deti" delaji deti.

Deti mi odesly na vysokou, jsou daleko ( nejblizsi 600 mil) a vidim je tak 2x v roce. Doufam, ze jsem udelala vse, co bylo v mych silach, abych je vychovala k zodpovednosti za sebe, ale i za druhe.
Nastesti jsou tu telefony a pocitace a tak jsme v neustalem styku. Diskutujeme dohromady na ruzna temata a manzelstvi je me oblibene tema. Nemam pravo ci svoleni zverejnovat tu jejich nazory, ale mohu okopirovat nektere sve "diskusni namety" , Treba: Manzelsky slib a jak jej dodrzovat po cely zivot:
Ano, je to v anglictine. Pro ty, co nerozumi, tak mohu prelozit az budu mit vice energie. Nebo mozna prelozi nekdo jiny - jen tak, k procviceni:

Moji milovani - All my beloved - please, read this and try to answer soon.

(To Love, Honor and Cherish - what an incredible promise! I"ll love you as long as you behave in a lovable manner... I"ll honor you by placing you on a pedestal, than blame you when you tumble off... I"ll cherish you as long as my heart goes pitter-patter whenever I see you...I"ll promise to love you unconditionally - until you give me a reason not to.. I"ll accept you for what you are but secretly try to change the parts of you I do not like...And I"ll always want the best for you, as long as it"s good for me, too. )

LOVE is the commitment you make to be present in the marriage. That means being there for each other every day, even when life intrudes and you"d prefer to be somewhere else with someone else. HONOR is acknowledging and respecting each other as you are, and not harboring intentions of bending the other to your will. CHERISH is the way you express your love, respect, and compassion in your everyday life. Cherish involves action - the tangible token of your regard and the requests you say yes to, the TRUTHS you tell and live.

Imagine a triangle, with LOVE at the top. You cannot LOVE and CHERISH another person if you don"t acknowledge him or her for who he or she really is (HONOR) - that is, if you ignore his or her needs, idealize him or her, or think only of trying to change him or her.You cannot HONOR and CHERISH another person if you haven"t made A COMMITMENT (LOVE) to be his or her partner - that is, if you stay single within the relationship, always insist on being right, or threaten separation or divorce whenever there is an argument.You cannot LOVE or HONOR another person if you don"t express your commitment and respect in action (CHERISH) - that is, if you are unwilling to perform the daily gestures that enhance your partner"s life. YOUR VOWS ARE NOT THE WORDS YOU say, THEY ARE THE INTENTIONS YOU live IN YOUR LIFE TOGETHER. And remember - You cannot really LOVE without COMMITMENT. Do not stay alone in your life. Often you have to pay for happiness by certain amount of pain. But it is mostly worse it.

" Life is trouble, death is not. To live means to look for trouble." Don"t be affraid.
I love you all. Mom