To love, honor and cherish

Milovat, ctit a vazit si...

(Muj preklad je nesikovny. potrebovala bych pomoci s nekterymi slovy, jako CHERISH ci COMMITMENT. Pomoc vitana.)

LOVE is the commitment you make to be present in the marriage. That means being there for each other every day, even when life intrudes and you"d prefer to be somewhere else with someone else.
HONOR is acknowledging and respecting each other as you are, and not harboring intentions of bending the other to your will.
CHERISH is the way you express your love, respect, and compassion in your everyday life. Cherish involves action - the tangible token of your regard and the requests you say yes to, the TRUTHS you tell and live.


MILOVAT znamena prislibit ze budete pritomni v manzelstvi. Znamena to byt tu jeden pro druheho kazdy den i kdyz casem zivot vse zmeni a vy byste radeji byli s nekym jinym nekde uplne jinde.
CTIT znamena uznavat a respektovat toho druheho takoveho, jaky je a ne mit skryte umysly zmenit ho podle sve vule.
VAZIT SI je zpusob, jakym vyjadrujete svou lasku, respekt a souciteni v kazdodenim zivote. VAZIT SI zahrnuje akci - hmatatelne dukazy naseho respektu, naplneni pozadavku ci prani kterym vyhovime. Pravdy, ktere rikame a ktere zijeme.

Imagine a triangle, with LOVE at the top.
You cannot LOVE and CHERISH another person if you don"t acknowledge him or her for who he or she really is (HONOR) - that is, if you ignore his or her needs, idealize him or her, or think only of trying to change him or her.
You cannot HONOR and CHERISH another person if you haven"t made A COMMITMENT (LOVE) to be his or her partner - that is, if you stay single within the relationship, always insist on being right, or threaten separation or divorce whenever there is an argument.
You cannot LOVE or HONOR another person if you don"t express your commitment and respect in action (CHERISH) - that is, if you are unwilling to perform the daily gestures that enhance your partner"s life. YOUR VOWS ARE NOT THE WORDS YOU say, THEY ARE THE INTENTIONS YOU live IN YOUR LIFE TOGETHER.

Predstavte si trojuhelnik se slovem MILOVAT na vrcholu.
Nemuzete MILOVAT A VAZIT SI druheho jestlize ho neuznavate ci neocenujete takoveho, jakym opravdu je, jestlize ignorujete jeho potreby, idealizujete si ho nebo uvazujete o tom, jak ho zmenit.
Nemuzete CTIT a VAZIT SI druheho jestlize nevyjadrujete sve ZASLIBENI (MILOVAT) ci odevzdanost stat se jeho partnerem. To znamena jestlize zustanete "svobodnym" ( ve smyslu "nezenatym") ci nezavislym ve vztahu. Nebo vzdy trvate na tom, ze jste v pravu a vyhrozujete odchodem ci rozvodem v pripade neshody.
Nemuzete MILOVAT a CTIT druheho jestlize nevyjadrite svoji oddanost a respekt ciny (VAZIT SI)- to znamena ze nejste ochotni vykonavat denne gesta a ukony, ktere by zprijemnily a zlepsily zivot vaseho parnera a ucinily ho stastnejsim.
Vase sliby nejsou slova, ktera vyslovite ale jsou to umysly a zamery jak zit sve zivoty spolecne.


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TAKZE - TOTO SLIBITE PRI SVATBE A POZDEJI SE KOLEM MIHNE STAVNATA BLONDYNA NEBO CERNOVLASY KRASAVEC A VY SE ROZHODNETE - KDEPAK, ZADNY SEBEZAPOR, UZIJU SI CO MOHU. DELAL(A) JSEM TO TAK I PRED SVATBOU. NEBUDU SE UZ OBETOVAVAT. TO RADEJI OBETUJI ZIVOTY SVYCH DETI.


To Love, Honor and Cherish - what an incredible promise! I"ll love you as long as you behave in a lovable manner... I"ll honor you by placing you on a pedestal, than blame you when you tumble off... I"ll cherish you as long as my heart goes pitter-patter whenever I see you...I"ll promise to love you unconditionally - until you give me a reason not to.. I"ll accept you for what you are but secretly try to change the parts of you I do not like...And I"ll always want the best for you, as long as it"s good for me, too.

A MANZELSKY SLIB SE NAHLE PONEKUD ZMENI:
Milovat, ctit a vazit si - jaky neuveritelny slib.
Budu te milovat tak dlouho, dokud budes milovani hodna...
Budu te ctit tak ze si te umistim na piedestal a pak te budu obvinovat, ze jsi z nej spadla...
Budu si te vazit, pokud se mi rozbusi srdce kdykoli te uvidim...
Slibuji, ze te budu milovat bezpodminecnou laskou dokud mi nedas duvod abych prestal...
Akceptuji te takoveho jaky jsi, ale tajne se snazim zmenit to, co se mi na tobe nelibi...
A vzdy chci pro tebe jen to nejlepsi pokud je to take dobre pro mne.